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What fills the weekends

Fifteen men, a weekend on an island, and time for what matters.

The weekends are held by Steven Wensley. He has sat in men’s groups for ten years, started with Tomas Friis and helped create Tribal Vibe.

By day we work on the land. In the evening we go deep and build a bridge between who we were and who we want to be, surrounded by other men who listen and mirror us.

The hall with sofas and rugs under a ceiling of seaweed and exposed beams.

How a weekend runs

Friday afternoon

The ferry from Stigsnæs, a quarter of an hour. Coffee, a tour, and a box by the door for your phone, if you feel like putting it down.

Friday evening

Food from the big kitchen. A fire. A round: why have you come, and what are you afraid to say. We listen, and nobody has to answer.

Saturday

Work in the morning, real work, the kind fifteen pairs of hands can shift. Sauna and the sea in the afternoon. A workshop in the evening.

Sunday

Breakfast, tidying up, a last round: what are you taking with you. Then the ferry again. What was said stays on the island.

A long table with chairs and a bench along the window in the dining room.
Sunset over the meadow.

Practical

15 places · DKK 850 · bed and all meals included · sauna · bring your own ferry ticket and sleeping bag

Next

We set the dates together with the people who write.

Write to us →

If you want to come

Write to us, and Steven will answer within three days.

What we do when we work

  • Demolition and clearingwhat has to go first
  • Rough painting and preparationrooms for spring
  • Insulationceilings and walls
  • Outdoor areaspaths, fences, fire pit, benches

Roofing, electrics, plumbing and anything load-bearing are done by people qualified for it. The rest there is room to learn together, with the ground under our feet.