Paths / Men’s groups and rites of passage
The shadow · 2 July 2027 – 4 July 2027
What you keep to yourself. And the man who gets under your skin.
How you get the place
You write here. Steven answers within three days. If you both say yes, you get an email with a payment link, and the place is yours once it is paid.
About the weekend
The shadow is what you put away to become the man you are. The key is projection: the trait you find hard to bear in another man usually has an address with you. By the fire on Friday we begin with our own.
On Saturday we look at both sides: what we have let ourselves be subjected to, and what we have subjected others to. The one who only sees himself as a victim stays a child; the one who only sees himself as a perpetrator stays a prisoner. Sunday is the heaviest morning of the ten — and the one most take something home from.
Clearing a room or a barn: bringing out what has stood hidden, sorting, and burning what needs burning.
On Saturday evening by the fire each man who wants to says one sentence: which part of it is mine.
Of what I find hard to bear in him, what do I know from myself?
Which man gets under your skin — and why?
The whole weekend, hour by hour →
Want to come
Your name, your email and whatever you feel like saying. Steven answers within three days.