Men's weekend
Anger
We split firewood and find out what your anger is guarding.
About the weekend
Anger is most often a boundary that was crossed a long time ago. Men lose it in two ways — it explodes, or it turns inward. By the fire on Friday we tell of our own times: the ones where it came out wrong, and the ones where it stayed in.
On Saturday you find the anger you are carrying right now and write down which boundary it is guarding. You learn the difference between anger and contempt — a relationship can live with the first. Sunday is about Monday: say it while it is small, and use the body before the words.
Splitting firewood for the winter, and tearing down what has to come down. One man teaches the others the axe.
On the floor on Saturday evening we practise the no: first with the voice, then with the body. Two men at a time, a stop word everyone knows, and only what both have said yes to.
What is my anger guarding?
Who gets your anger — and who should have had it?
How the weekend lies
Friday
You arrive between 2 and 4 pm and get a room. At 5 we sit in a circle, and at 9 we open the theme by the fire. Sauna for those who want it.
Saturday
Up at 7. A talk, then work until 2 pm. Two hours where you write, in silence. A walk to the sea, two by two. Dinner, and at 8 the evening's room.
Sunday
A silent walk, a short circle, and then we read out what you wrote on Saturday — anonymously, if you wish. A last talk, and at 4 the ferry leaves.
15 places · DKK 850 · bed and all meals included · sauna · bring your own ferry ticket and sleeping bag
Steven answers within three days.
You can come to this one as your first weekend.