Paths / Men’s groups and rites of passage
Desire · 24 September 2027 – 26 September 2027
Wanting something, and standing by it.
How you get the place
You write here. Steven answers within three days. If you both say yes, you get an email with a payment link, and the place is yours once it is paid.
About the weekend
Desire as life force, before it becomes a problem. By the fire on Friday we talk about desire in a masculine body — the longing, the shame, and the two shadows: the one that lacks boundaries, and the one where everything has gone flat. We go first with our own mistakes.
Saturday is about desire and boundaries: wanting, and asking what she wants. Desire in a long relationship; the man who stopped wanting; the man who wants too much. On Sunday you take the conversation home.
Saturday's meal from scratch for all fifteen: the oven lit in the morning, bread, meat over fire, vegetables from the place.
On Saturday evening we play it through on the floor — what you find hard to say, what you want and hesitate over — together with an actor Lai has worked with for many years. Everyone keeps their hands to themselves. You choose whether you stand on the floor or watch. The sauna afterwards is in silence.
What do I want — rather than what I ought to want?
What do you want that you keep to yourself?
The whole weekend, hour by hour →
Want to come
Your name, your email and whatever you feel like saying. Steven answers within three days.