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Anger · 12 March 2027 – 14 March 2027

We split firewood and find out what your anger is guarding.

DKK 850 · bed, meals, sauna

How you get the place

You write here. Steven answers within three days. If you both say yes, you get an email with a payment link, and the place is yours once it is paid.

About the weekend

Anger is most often a boundary that was crossed a long time ago. Men lose it in two ways — it explodes, or it turns inward. By the fire on Friday we tell of our own times: the ones where it came out wrong, and the ones where it stayed in.

On Saturday you find the anger you are carrying right now and write down which boundary it is guarding. You learn the difference between anger and contempt — a relationship can live with the first. Sunday is about Monday: say it while it is small, and use the body before the words.

The hands

Splitting firewood for the winter, and tearing down what has to come down. One man teaches the others the axe.

Saturday evening

On the floor on Saturday evening we practise the no: first with the voice, then with the body. Two men at a time, a stop word everyone knows, and only what both have said yes to.

The question to take home

What is my anger guarding?

Before you come

Who gets your anger — and who should have had it?

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