Paths / Men’s groups and rites of passage
Fear · 9 April 2027 – 11 April 2027
What you are afraid of, said out loud among men.
How you get the place
You write here. Steven answers within three days. If you both say yes, you get an email with a payment link, and the place is yours once it is paid.
About the weekend
Fight, flight, freeze, fawn — four ways the body handles fear before the head gets to think. By the fire on Friday you find your own: the time you froze, the time you were too nice. It is a map of you, and you decide how much of it the others see.
On Saturday we talk about what men are afraid of — losing, being seen, being laughed at among men. Courage is fear plus a decision. On Sunday we practise the small no, said the same day.
A task you have watched others do and walked around yourself: bricklaying, plastering, cutting glass, laying roofing felt. Together with a man who can.
Saturday evening is the dark: twenty minutes alone on the island, the head torch switched off in your pocket. Back at the fire you say one sentence, if you wish.
Which F is mine?
When did you last say yes out of fear?
The whole weekend, hour by hour →
Want to come
Your name, your email and whatever you feel like saying. Steven answers within three days.